Fiercely Independent Pam

Category: Memories

  • Happy Birthday to ME! This is 47!

    So today is the day! I’ve learned to embrace birthdays and make them super special! After all, I’ve been through so much, that birthdays are an important reminder that I have survived 100% of my bad days!

    Birthdays are an important reminder that I have made it further than people thought I would. My whole life has been an uphill battle with myself. Since early childhood and through my teenage years I battled random illnesses and issues. I have been called a “Bulldog” . And I feel like that is quite fitting for my personality.

    Today, I will celebrate. Somehow I ended up with a “cupcake” theme. My nail tech painted a cupcake on my nails, I ordered and received a cupcake for my wheelchair joystick, and managed to find a cupcake sticker for my Dexcom cgm. I feel like I need to buy some cupcakes to share! I also got a balloon to attach to my wheelchair for the day!

    This is last year’s post. At that time I was just settling in to a wonderful community, finished my service dog application and begun the wait process, and excited to share the day with new friends. This year is much of the same, but a renewed effort to discover what I can give to others. Through my technology offerings, other ideas, and remaining positive, I hope I am able to influence people more than just purchasing products.

    Today, I tried something new- holding my breath that it comes through for me and then I will share. The best thing you can do to help is make sure you are following me on my socials and commenting when possible. Oh and of course I am open to any/all prayers.

    Celebrate birthdays, don’t be afraid of getting older, make the memories, and enjoy the attention!

    A pink balloon with colorful poka-dots- that reads "Happy Birthday!"
    A small cupcake with colorful sprinkles and a red cherry that also is joystick cover for a power wheelchair!

  • Plant Mom: A Little of All Kinds!

    I am a self-proclaimed “Plant Mom” I started last year with a few cuttings from someone on Etsy. Then I ordered some succulents and larger plants. My cuttings have grown into full size plants and I really enjoy them.

    After sometime, it was warm enough to start finding plants for my outside patio. I also ordered a raised flower bed so I could be interactive with my plants. I got some hanging plants, as well as a few potted plants. Everything with a few exceptions did very well over last summer. I then brought inside everything that I could and left the rest to fend for themselves.

    I am happy to report that a lot of my plants that I left dormant outside came back. The plants I brought into my apartment did fairly well, with the exception of my lemon tree which might be a goner,

    I bought a few new plants to freshen up some planters and offer new colors and life to my existing plants, I am so appreciative of Instacart- I was able to get plants and potting soil from Home Depot without even leaving the house.

    So now I water and watch to make sure all my plants are happy and will grow. I enjoy spending time outside cleaning up dead ends and such. I look forward to some strawberries hopefully and that my lemon tree comes back to life!

  • Quickly Approaching 100 Posts!!

    Technically, this is my 100th post! I started this blog in April and took some time off due to medical stuff, but I’ve been committed to it for almost a year now. Honestly, I did not think I would enjoy it as much as I do. I’ve never considered myself a writer, but I am enjoying finding my voice through “Fiercely Independent Pam!!”

    I have shared things with you, my audience, that I never would have expected to, but feel very strongly that if it can help someone else on their own journey, then it is worth it. My journey continues to take all sorts of twists and turns, most I would have never anticipated. It is so important to note that none of my successes would have happened without the people I call my tribe! These are my friends and family both locally and from a distance. The visit, phone call, text, or FaceTime, makes all the difference in not feeling so alone.

    I need to also include some of my doctors, especially those from MUSC as part of my tribe. I have uncovered answers from medical mysteries that are decades old. Unfortunately, I have also had nightmare gaslighting experiences with other providers. It’s important to remember that both can happen, we need our tribe of family and friends to believe us.

    Looking forward, I have so much to be excited about. Continued care for my dysautonomia/POTS, losing a little more weight, getting a stronger handle on my blood sugar, and getting better at Mahjong, finding the right medication for my RA, starting my tutoring services again, and more!

    Most exciting of course, is the possibility of a service dog with PAALS. Three years ago, I told my brother Tim that long-term I wanted a service dog to assist me with mobility tasks, I think he thought I was crazy, but I told him it was going to happen. And here it is, closer than ever. I pray each night that I am gifted this opportunity (and it happens soon). I truly believe it will be life changing.

    Well there it is, my 100th post- I thank you for sticking with me and reading my posts. The best thing you can do to help me is to share my posts and social media pages. I will continue to create content as long as there are people to interact with!