
Welcome to my Fiercely Independent World!
Flying Monkeys are of course a nod to the Wizard of Oz. Years ago, when I first became a principal, I found a sign that read- I have Flying Monkeys and I am not afraid to use them! I knew right then that I had to have the sign. And thus began the Flying Monkey merchandise!
So much has changed since then, I no longer can work and my 70 plus hours a week vocation is gone. I mourned this loss for a long time as it was my life goal and I loved it! I am so fortunate that after I had to stop working, I moved in (with my dog, Sofi) to my parent’s house in Southwest Florida. Besides the immense heat, it was wonderful. I quickly learned that this was my new calling- becoming a full time caregiver for both of my aging parents as I navigated my own healthcare needs.
My parents were amazing- They were finally living their “Best Life” as a retired couple- living in a gated community with a pool and part of several activities. Mom was a Red Hat Lady and Dad loved tinkering with his cars and showing them at the various car shows in the area. Their health wasn’t always the greatest, but for their age and life lived, they were doing well! I however was struggling with my breathing, fatigue, and mobility.
I loved sharing meals with my parents and the always wonderful spontaneous trips to the ice cream shack (Rum Raisin for Dad, sugar free something for Mom, and usually Apple Pie for me- all homemade and super yummy!) Sofi thrive at my parent’s too- she was also living her best retirement life and brought joy to both of my parents!
As I navigated my own healthcare journey, my parents’ health was declining. Mom was dealing with dementia symptoms and Dad was dealing with chronic pain, which we later learned was cancer in his bones attributed to prostrate cancer. There are so many stories to share- hiding cookies in the freezer, going to the VA, and more! We never let things get to serious or too stressful.
I have so much to share including my new adventures such as getting a service dog, using various mobility aids, and products that make my life easier! Please follow me for all this and more!