Having a small “pity party” for myself. I’ll get over it before I even publish this post, but like anything else, I know the best thing I can do is get these feelings out. A year ago, I was faced smack in the face with one of the biggest surprises of my life. I was being “tossed out” of my community. On paper this was due to my medical needs being more than they could meet, however I was not asking them to meet them. The actuality was that I was too aware of their missteps and failures for myself and other residents. In hindsight, the move to my current community was the best thing that could have ever happened to me! The process of moving and settling in was quick and somewhat painless, but it came at a cost- a financial cost that I never quite recovered from.
Fast forward to today and I continue to struggle to stretch my social security payment as much as possible. I do not qualify for any extra help, because ironically I worked so much, my social security payment is just over the poverty line to be able to qualify for additional services. I never thought I would be here and after all, I have a Master’s degree in a needed field and loved working. I worked hard to pay off my student loans that were minimal because I made good choices about tuition and earned amazing scholarships.I am a good example for anyone who believes you just have to try harder and if you are struggling financially, it ,must be your fault. This is simply not true.
I am confident that through my hustles and creativity, I will find solutions. after all that’s what it means to be fiercely independent! The medical bills, caregiver support, transportation, and unexpected expenses pile up quickly. This doesn’t even include the financial burdens of “wish list” items like mobility devices or other products not covered by insurance.
I am not here to beg for money or anything like that, just to bring awareness that services for our vulnerable populations needs to be protected. I am not making a political statement at all, just remember that the disabled population is the only group that anyone can join at any time in their life. You never know what curve balls life will throw at you. We are all one accident, one healthcare scare, or aging into becoming disabled. Disability brings a whole new financial challenges I was not prepared for in the least.
So, what is the solution? For me, it’s a matter of keep hustling. I am determined to meet my financial needs through lots of means. Sponsors, bartering, and even begging are not beneath me at this point. I realize I am lucky, I have a lot of skills to bring to the table and most of the time, I am able to muster up the energy to use them. There are far many more disabled people who aren’t able to do this to the same extent. We all have to rely on our “tribe” the friends and family who meet us where we are despite our difficulties.
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