Fiercely Independent Pam

Tag: Grand Strand Medical Center

  • A Little Setback: A Return to the ER!

    It was bound to happen! Last night I found myself in the ER after spending the day trying to urinate but barely able to even with self cathing. After about 12 hours of this, I decided that I should go get it checked out.

    It was interesting that with the bladder scan, I didn’t have a ridiculous amount of fluid in my bladder, but enough to cause pressure. The ER dr ordered some fluids to flush out any bad stuff and then we cathed again. The urine showed a bladder infection so I was put on antibiotics, given some pain medicine and sent home. All in all, it wasn’t a terrible visit, but still less than desirable!

    I am now on antibiotics for the bladder infection and they also called in some medicine that will help with the spasms. I am looking forward to seeing the urologist tomorrow to get his input on the situation.

    I am so thankful that I was able to take an Uber to the ER as opposed to needing to call an ambulance. My mobility is so much better. I appreciate how far I’ve come and know that it was because of all my hard work!

    This little setback isn’t a major deal, just frustrating! I am hoping that everything heals correctly and without any other trouble.

  • Health Update: A Setback or Reboot? My Latest Adventure

    A setback is just another word for reboot. I could say it is something negative, as it seems like everything is against me at times, but I am choosing to see it as an opportunity to reboot. That is, my cardiac rehab plan was going so well, but something unseen must have been wrong.

    Last Tuesday night, when I was getting ready to go to bed, I stood up from my wheelchair to place an insulin needle in my sharps container. I remember that I didn’t “feel well” aka, my blood pressure was dropping, and next thing I know, I was waking up on the floor. I was fairly confident that nothing super emergent was going on, but I had incredible pain in my hip, neck and back. I knew this meant that I needed to go to the ER and get checked out. So, I called the ambulance to help me get up and bring me to the ER.

    The ER ran scans of my head and neck, as well as X-rays of my pelvis. Nothing was out of the normal range for me, so they sent me home. I knew this fall would be a setback for my progress, but resolved to continue to trust the process. I got home around 1:30am and had a very uncomfortable night.

    The next morning, I planned on having a quiet day to recover. I made up my mind that I wanted to follow up with my orthopedic doctor about my hip. I was excited to get an appointment for the next day. Not a setback, but progress… My appointment was with a PA that works with my hip orthopedic doctor. He was wonderful but had unfortunate news- he was fairly certain that I fractured my hip and need to be completely non-weight bearing until I could get an MRI and figure out next steps. Another setback for sure, as if there is a fracture, I will require surgery!

    So, I am mastering transferring from my wheelchair without putting weight on my left hip/leg. This “setback” has reminded me of how grateful I am for my wonderful power wheelchair that gives me freedom, even in unknown times. I am also in a holding pattern, waiting for an appointment for my MRI, with several implanted medical devices, clearance for a MRI takes some time!

  • Medical Providers: It Only Takes One to Feel Better!

    Have you ever had the experience with medical providers where you feel like saying “WoW, how refreshing to not have to battle with your providers?” I am currently in the hospital awaiting a lumbar puncture and am so excited to state that this is my experience right now! The hospitalist comes in and wants to have a conversation about what is going on with me. He listens and does not put up his “guard” when I suggest something or ask a question.

    This is a treat of sorts. I am very aware that providers are unfortunately not like this as the norm. Too often, providers are either too busy/overwhelmed to take the necessary time with a patient. Or sometimes a provider simply doesn’t like the fact that a patient might actually know more about a specific condition than the actual provider.

    Michael J. Fox speaks about this situation and essentially says the patient dealing with a specific illness is the expert on that illness. Of course we need medical providers that are experts as well, but please do not discount the experience of the patient.

    This is super common with women being gaslighted to believe that their symptoms, including pain are not real. This can be too easily chalked up to anxiety, depression, or extra weight. It is so disturbing that even young, female providers do this often. I can totally appreciate the stress and enormous pressure of being a medical provider, but let’s meet in the middle and realize everyone is stressed out over a given situation.

    Tomorrow, I am scheduled for a lumbar puncture (LP). I am hoping to find some answers as well as a successful procedure with wonderful providers. I usually have excellent care with the Interventional Radiology (IR) department. They seem to love their job, as they are the “Macgyvers” of the medical world. Tomorrow also is the last day that my wonderful hospitalist is on my case. Fingers crossed that I find a provider that believes me and wants to partner with me for my care.

    So, I will wait and see. My prayers tonight are for a successful LP, that the LP provides information to direct care, and a quiet wish to be able to go home asap. What are your experiences with providers? How do you do to honor those that are excellent? What makes you draw the line and make a formal complaint? I’d love to hear from you!