Fiercely Independent Pam

Tag: acessability is for everyone

  • Dreaming of Wet Noses Again… Gaining Strength and Making it Happen…

    Well it was bound to happen… I made a giant leap and ordered my first new pet product. It’s a smart collar that is almost like a fitbit for a dog. I was excited to do so and being then”gadget queen” I just knew it was a good purchase. But now I wait. PAALS is accomplishing amazing things, with this, being their 20th year. I am excited to hopefully attaining/befriending my service dog this year.

    I have learned a lot more about the process that PAALS uses to place service dogs with clients and am very ready to take on training, fundraising, and the hard work that is needed to build a bond between dog and handler.

    I spend a lot of time dreaming about a service dog and all it will be able to do for me. I think of dropped items, holding doors, accessing areas of the grocery store that I can’t access now. And the biggest thing- companionship- I long for sharing my bed with a sloppy, lovable beast of sorts. It’s been a long time since my dear Sofi was able to come into bed with me, but I remember it well, and it felt so perfect.

    Next steps include a site visit that will be combined with a community visit. PAALS is going to bring a service dog to help me negotiate the grocery store and gain some skills with cues. I so appreciate their willingness to help with transportation since the beach and Columbia is not the closest. It looks like this visit is going to take place in either March or April.

    I am also enthusiastic about the training process. I love learning new things and processes. Learning cues, signals, and directions are right up my alley. I am looking forward to daily training exercises and getting outside for walks several times a day.

    October is the big deadline. My 25th College Reunion is in October in Baltimore. I am so looking forward to seeing my friends, and having my service dog and making the big travel plans by flying to Baltimore. I missed my 20th reunion because my dad was dying so being on campus is even more important to me. It sounds like its a long shot to have my dog in time for reunion, but patience is the name of of the game and I will demonstrate that the quality of the process is more important than than the timing.

  • An Awesome Accessibility Adventure in My Backyard!

    So, it has been a hot minute since I’ve posted. I’m learning that I need to take a day or two off from all things digital each week to help rejuvenate my creativity. I had an amazing weekend with my college roommate and her wife! It is amazing to be with people that you know do not see you as a burden or get frustrated with your mobility/health needs. Accessibility helps tons too! I wasn’t sure what direction this post was going to go, but I realized that I wanted to share my adventures in accessibility more than anything.

    I am still non-weight bearing because of my hip injury so I wasn’t sure how we were going to get out an about this weekend. Friday and Saturday were filled with great food adventures and quality time spent together. We managed to get out by using my manual (non-custom) wheelchair. Relying on Lyft rides to get where we wanted to go, I was pleasantly surprised that the drivers, with only one exception, helped to put my wheelchair in the trunk. While wheelchair accessible ride-shares are not available in my area, their help made us getting out possible.

    We had planned to go to a local kite festival on Sunday, but a coastal storm canceled those plans. I already hired a wheelchair accessible van for Sunday so that I could bring my power wheelchair out for the event. We switched gears and decided to go to the mall.

    I realized I haven’t been shopping at a mall in at least six years. It was great to get around and be able to do some in person shopping. I found the mall and most stores to be very accessible. Most paths were wide enough for my wheelchair and people were friendly and helpful. It helps that this is still what I would consider a “newer” mall and built with accessibility in mind. The bathrooms were great and even had many “family style” restrooms that provide more space and adult friendly changing tables.

    The real excitement was being able to go bowling at the “fancy” high tech bowling alley at the mall. We checked in and inquired about accessible lanes and without a blink of an eye, we were set to start bowling. I used a ramp type thing to push the ball down the lane while staying in my wheelchair. There was a learning curve for sure and we even figured out how to put the bumpers up for me (and only me) to compensate for the learning curve. There was no fuss about it being accessible and my needs didn’t hinder my friends playing either. This is true accessibility!

    The only drawback to all this accessibility was the cost. Wheelchair transportation is not cheap and having no other options is tough. We must fight harder and advocate for total accessibility by having transportation available for wheelchair users. There are noble people and local organizations that are trying to make this a reality. What options exist by you?

    I loved my adventures with my friends this past weekend. Accessibility allowed me to fully take part in the fun! My hope is that everyone who needs access to fun adventures, which is everyone, gets the chance to make this a reality. This needs to happen not just for special days, but as the norm.

    Getting ready to get a strike!
    Core Memory
    Need to perfect my form!
    The very cool food delivery robot!